
"She's My Co-Pilot" (in life) says John, about his wife, Carol.
John Olsen didn’t ask Carol to be his wife. After dating for three months, he just started talking about how they should set a date for the wedding. They probably didn’t have to talk about volunteering for the Red Cross either. They found something they like to do, driving, and they have someone they like to do it with, each other.
All things follow a natural progression and they have now been married for 48 years. They have been blessed with 3 children and 4 grandchildren. They have been volunteering with the Red Cross for ten years and John has been donating blood for even longer. ”They’re always there at the drop of a hat,” says Beth Feuerstein, Hospital Services Technician.
The couple is on call every fourth week to drive for the blood services program, which provides blood for area hospitals.
Beth says, it is important to have on-call drivers for this program to fulfill immediate needs of hospitals that may be running low on stocks of blood. This means the drivers have to drive during all hours, in all weather and sometimes quite a distance.
“They are a great inspiration,” says Beth. “After all that Carol and John have been through, they are so supportive of each other.”
When Carol was diagnosed with breast cancer the couple continued to volunteer through the treatments; delivering blood where it was needed. Carol, now in remission, says that she was lucky the side effects of treatment were not bad for her and that volunteering was a nice escape.
John has been donating blood for many years and was scheduled to donate his 20th gallon on November 7, 2009. But on November 2, a rescue squad brought him to the emergency room for a bleeding ulcer. He was given 2 units of blood then and would receive three more. For now he will have to wait but he looks forward to giving his 20th gallon next year.
John says, you can’t always anticipate the weather on the road. Last winter the couple drove to Marquette on Thursday and the sun was shining. They made the same trip the next day and experienced their toughest drive in whiteout conditions. Weather in Wisconsin can be a hazard to their volunteer work. “We have had some icy roads,” says John, “but we just take our time.”
John says, he once read that the greatest thing you can do for someone is to do something knowing you can never be repaid. That is something that inspires the couple’s volunteer work. They don’t know who will receive the blood after it’s delivered and the person who receives it won’t know who delivered it.
The couple enjoys sightseeing and watching for birds on the road. They take turns driving so they each get a turn to sit back and enjoy the ride. They don’t run out of things to talk about but they are also comfortable in silence. “We just like being together,” says Carol, “and it hasn’t changed in 48 years of marriage.”
When they are not volunteering they say they are truly enjoying retirement. They might turn on the coffee maker and turn off the television so they can put some classical music on real low, then spend the night reading while nibbling on cookies. Or they might do what they did during the last blizzard and just turn everything off then open the curtains so they can spend the day watching it snow.
“They’re beautiful people,” says Beth, “and this world is a better place because of them.”